Wednesday, October 31, 2018

How to Get Kids to Not Hate Reading (as told by a former student)

Trust me when I say, I know. I'm not a teacher, but I was a student and book blogger, and there are right ways and wrong ways to get kids to love reading. This isn't your grandmother's English class anymore.

Here are some of my own thoughts. Disclaimer: I am not a teacher. But if you've been in school for twelve plus years, I think your opinion should be considered valid.




Don't assign summer reading for the sake of giving summer reading.
This is really annoying, just like giving homework so the kids are busy at night. Unlike math or history facts, reading skills aren't as likely to leak out of your brain out of the summer. It's like riding a bike; you can't forget.

I once read an embarrassing moment section in the magazine where the girl in question had to read a big pile of books over the summer. On the first day of school, they were given a test on the books. And the reason for this assignment was...what? 

One summer, I was asked to read a book over spring break. When we came back, we had to do a project where we pretended to be the characters over social media. It might have made more sense if  it had anything to do with the class material, but neither the book nor project had anything to do with what we were learning in class. In fact, it actually took time away from what we were doing. So why did I have to spend time doing all that work? Another time I read a book over the summer only to find out that whoops, the teacher forgot it was on the reading list. Yet another time, when I was in high school, "book groups" were an orientation activity. We had to read an extra book over the summer just to talk about it for 15 minutes as an orientation "bonding" activity. Confession time: I skimmed my book. And that's coming from a book blogger who likes to read!

Seriously. If there's no reason for a summer assignment, don't give them. This is probably the #1 reason that I see reading hate, and that includes me. I really feel like teachers should know better. (But if you are a teacher and there is a reason for this I'm missing, please feel free to share in the comments.)

If you do give summer reading, have it connect to something important, like a history concept you want to drive home for the upcoming year. There should be a practical reason for doing it. Giving kids homework is not a reason.



Host fun reading events.

In school, we had lots of independent reading time. We once had an afternoon blocked out where we could bring blankets, pillows, hot cocoa mugs, and a book of our choice for an afternoon of reading.  We were also big proponents of the book fair and better yet, the book order. I look back fondly on that day, when I brought "Super Diaper Baby" along with a pillow and had to try super-hard to keep myself from cracking up in front of the class. 



Don't censor your child's reading.

Hearing about helicopter parents hand-picking every book their child reads saddens me. Junie B. Jones using "too much bad grammar" is a big one. Oh, no! Characters are making mistakes, making totally understandable errors for their age, and aren't perfect! Isn't the point of reading to watch characters develop? What kind of message are you sending when you explain that you don't want them reading a book because the character makes mistakes? Also, I have rarely seen a book influence a child's behavior. It's really unlikely that they're going to squeeze ketchup packs under the toilet seats at school because they saw Captain Underpants do it. A shy girl probably won't start shouting in class because she saw Junie B. Jones do it once or twice.

And if, for some reason, they do act out because of a character? You just explain to them why it's not a good idea and hopefully they won't do it again.

Also, when you pick your child's books, reading becomes a chore. If you force your kids to read certain books, they're not going to love reading as much. If they get to read about things they love, they'll find themselves wanting to read more and maybe even explore other reading realms. Sounds like a no-brainer. Which leads to my next point...



Let kids pick their own books, to an extent.

You can apply many reading practices to just about anything you read. However, that doesn't mean you should eradicate the classics entirely. You don't want to create the impression that all fun reading is work, either.

ADDENDUM: I get that if people want an English education, they should read some classics once in a while. Even so, use ways to make it more fun. I heard of one local teacher who once showed Psycho in class and then they compared it to Oedipus Rex. This isn't your grandma's English class; find ways to have some fun.



Get engaged!

Many modern books talk about relevant issues that make reading fun. Have debates. Have book club chats with activities and "conversation starters" that actually make it feel like a book club. Make board games instead of book reports...though again, I understand that sometimes essays are unavoidable. 

You can do this with classic novels too. Make the issues at hand relevant to your students (admit it, I bet even you weren't thrilled by all your English books). Stage dramatic Shakespeare readings and spend some time looking up Shakespearean insults. Yes, those exist.




Say nay to heavy annotating.

At least partially. It's a ton of work, you guys, and it's probably the #2 reason why school kids get turned off by reading. It took me at least twice as long to read a book because teachers wanted to see lots of annotating on every page. I didn't have that many thoughts and would have to spend time making stuff up, or force myself to create questions. Why not have kids jot down 2-3 interesting discussion topics or observations instead? Things that they REALLY want to discuss instead of just doodling random remarks and questions so there is evidence they did the work. Quality work should be more important than evidence of doing it. 



Reading should be fun and enjoyable. The goal of many people is to get kids to love reading, but some of the ways that it's being done don't do much to achieve that goal. 

So have fun with it! Get involved! Read cool things! Take chances! Make mistakes! Oh, wait, that's Ms. Frizzle's saying. (Hey, there's an idea...watch the book's movie in class! That's another thing you could do.) 


Wednesday, October 17, 2018

Why I Disagree with Feminist Challenges of Disney Fairy Tales

Recently Keira Knightly was on the Ellen Show. She was talking about her three-year-old daughter and how she was allowed to watch any movies she wanted...with some exceptions. Basically Keira believed that The Little Mermaid and Cinderella are bad because "Ariel gives up her voice for a man and Cinderella waited around for a guy to save her." She went so far as to ban the movies from the house.



Unfortunately, in today's extremely wanting-to-be-politically-correct world, a lot of people are taking the same mindset. I think that's really sad! Let's think about this for a minute.

First of all, let's consider the context of when these stories originally came out. Fairy tales often served as stories that taught lessons when they were first written; oftentimes they served as warnings. Feminism wasn't exactly alive and kicking back then; if so, it was on a considerably smaller scale.  So they're not meant to be huge political statements. Especially the Disney versions. Considering that Cinderella came out in 1950, it makes sense that there probably won't be a lot of feminist messages. But so what? It's a good story. I liked it as a child. I couldn't care less about Cinderella's role in the home at age 4. And even so, can we please stop making the term "housewife" offensive? Many women choose that lifestyle and they do a great job with it. It doesn't mean they aren't ambitious or are passive.

Second, we need to actually pay attention to the stories. Since when did Cinderella have any desire to meet a guy to take her mind off her problems? All she wanted was to go to the ball. Sure it's possible that she wanted to meet the prince. Come to think of it, I'm not even sure that it was mentioned to Cinderella that the purpose of the ball was for the prince to find a wife. Mostly she dreamed about having a dress and taking time off from her tyrannical stepmother and stepsisters.

Now, Arial. Arial expressed an interest in being human long before she discovered Eric. She had a whole grotto filled with human treasures and a seagull friend that she talked to way before she actually had a love interest. And we know that she's bored of living under the sea when she sings about it...again, before she discovers Eric. She didn't give up her voice "for a man." She wanted a better life and was willing to take the risks...smart choice or not, you can decide for yourself. While there may have been some symbolism there, Ariel had plenty of motivation to want to live on land.

Still, some people say that Disney princesses are passive. I think this idea has actually gone by the wayside lately, but let's recap anyway:

Pocohontas tried to bridge a gap between two cultures.
Mulan saved China.
Jasmine refused to let others decide her future.
Merida had no interest in arranged marriages and wanted to decide her own future. She was also an excellent athlete.

Cinderella had qualities of her own. She was brave and didn't lose hope. She believed in the power of dreams and good friendship. She loved others as she loved herself. And yet I'm supposed to believe she's a bad role model?

Finally, you don't have to agree with a story to enjoy it. But I honestly don't believe these movies were telling girls they have to wait for a man. I never got that idea as a kid. I never got the supposed "message" that the creators of Barbie were trying to get me to be skinny either. They were dolls I enjoyed playing with; that's it. Unlike their parents, little kids take things at surface value. Even if they do think that being saved by a prince is nice, they won't go their whole lives thinking that. A little girl isn't likely to go into her twenties thinking, "A man has to save me. I learned that from Snow White when I was six!"

Not every story needs to be politicized and overthought. That kind of mindset can ruin stories. Often in the case of today's fairy tales, they're escapist stories to be enjoyed. I will be sad if little girls and boys don't get to grow up seeing movies like these; they're classics. And sometimes they're not meant to be any more than that.


What's your favorite fairy tale or Disney movie? Does it ever get challenged?

Monday, October 15, 2018

Halloween Books for Young Trick-or-Treaters

Looking for some Halloween fun for the young trick-or-treater in your life? Look no further. These are the Halloween books I enjoyed in my childhood and hope you'll like them as well.







Arthur's Halloween; Marc Brown

I honestly like the TV show better than the books, but the books are good too. In this one, D.W. wanders into the local witch's house and Arthur has to go find her. It has a lot of the "old Arthur" charm, plus it's a spookified introduction to the Tibbles!


Corduroy's Halloween; Don Freeman

Follow Corduroy and his stuffed pals as they pick pumpkins, decorate windows, and find the perfect costume that all ends in a great Halloween party. I loved the colorful illustrations at Corduroy's costume party. It's a fun book even if you're not a Corduroy diehard and the lift-the-flap aspect is cool too.


Lulu Goes to Witch School; Jane O'Connor 

Lulu Witch is excited (but scared too) to go to school and just as excited about the new spider dress her mom made her. But can she survive the class bully? It doesn't help that Sandy Witch tries to be better at everything! 


Two Little Witches; Harriet Ziefert 

When two little witches go trick or treating, anything can happen. It's a trick-or-treat tale where readers will meet new kids wanting to trick-or-treat with the rest of the group. Soon the witches meet pumpkins, pirates, and more. How big will their group get? Vibrant illustrations only add to this fun counting adventure and are arguably the best part. 


Purple Pickle Juice; Erica Farber & J.R. Sansevere 

Thistle Howl wants nothing more than to grow bigger. Every day, she drinks purple pickle juice and says some magic words, but to no avail. Will Thistle ever be able to grow? Maybe with the help of a family member...


Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone; J.K. Rowling

Now this may be too much for many who still read the books on this list. But for the youngest of trick-or-treaters, this one could a good read aloud. It doesn't get too scary until the very end. In case you still don't know, this is the story of a boy who one day finds out that he's a wizard and has been accepted to a great wizarding school. Although the mystery of who is trying to steal the Sorcerer's Stone is a common theme, it doesn't take up the whole book and a lot of time is spent on the magical elements of Harry's world. At Halloween, they are enjoying a great feast when suddenly a troll breaks in and they must save a classmate from it. Be sure to check out Chamber of Secrets, too- Harry gets to spend Halloween at a ghosts' party. 



The Monster at the End of this Book; Jon Stone

You have to love this book no matter what time of year it is! Poor Grover is hearing rumors of a monster at the end of the book. So he's going to try as hard as he can to prevent you, the reader, from turning pages to avoid seeing the monster! It's fun, unique, and comes with a funny surprise ending. Don't forget to buy the version with Elmo.


Little Witch Goes to School; Deborah Hautzig 

Little Witch wants to go to school with her friends, though her mom would rather her learn from her two terrible aunts. Finally she agrees to let her try school.. if Little Witch behaves badly enough. But Little Witch has a much easier time being nice than being mean. Can she pull it off?


Little Witch's Bad Dream; Deborah Hautzig

Little Witch's cousin Bossy has come to visit, and in true Little Witch fashion, tries to make everything nice for her cousin's visit. So one night she has a dream about turning her to garbage...but was it really a dream?


What books did you enjoy bringing out at Halloween when you were a young trick-or-treater? 


Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Twisty Tales for Your Halloween




It's Halloween time, so it's time for scary stories!

Admittedly I don't love scary stories, especially movies. For one thing, I don't think murder should be classified as entertainment. For another, some horror stories get downright corny. Evil clowns and baby dolls just don't scare me because, well, they're not real. (Actually, my step-grandma has a house FULL of antique dolls. I mean literally FULL. So I completely understand how they can be terrifying. The evil clowns and monsters, however...) So I stick to the psych thriller genre, and there is some very good stuff there.

Here is my journey into my foray into the genre over the past year or so.



First up is The Hypnotist's Love Story by Liane Moriarty.



I come across this one unexpectedly at the bookstore one day. The concept excited me because it wasn't a traditional horror story. It's a "starter" story about a woman who enters a new relationship, only to find out that he has a stalker. The suspense was super here, because you never knew who she was or where she was going to show up. What made it not as good as it could have been were the multiple attempted subplots that cluttered the second half. They really distracted from the premise and I didn't really care about most of them, particularly the missing father. Still, this was an exciting one.



Wanting more, I moved onto another Moriarty novel, Big Little Lies.

Now this one does end in probable murder, but if you have qualms about that I wouldn't worry. It's not offensive. You'll see after you read it. It starts after someone is killed at a fundraising event at the elementary school and then starts from the beginning. Young mom Jane's son is accused of attacking another child, causing some mama drama that gradually escalates. She and her friends must grapple with it through the coming year. It also proves that thrillers can be serious with its messages about domestic violence. I did find the climax to be rather, well, anticlimactic.



The next one was The Wife Between Us.

Now, I may have been new to the genre but WOW. What a twist! And there were several! This one I enjoyed thoroughly and kept thinking about. I can't speak for aficionados, but maybe they will like this anyway. I haven't reviewed it yet because it's hard to talk about the story without giving things away. If you want a suspenseful thriller without murder, this is a must read.



Wanting it slightly darker, I moved onto You Will Know Me.

I like reading about the lives of those I don't know. In this case, gymnasts. A death rocks the gymnastics community just as the Knox family is preparing to send their daughter Devon to trials for the next level, hoping to eventually send her to the Olympics. I'm sorry, but the writing was just plain bad here. The author goes off on tangents, uses very repetitive language, writes sentences that are half a page long, and multiple other things I disliked. Plus the twist is very easy to guess once you get past a certain incident, even for bad detectives like me. This book got HEAPS of praise and I really can't understand why at all. But if you like don't mind language, feel free to give it a try....



I was hoping for something better so I tried Never Let You Go.

Our protagonist was abused by her then-lover, and he is out of jail now. She believes that he is out to get her again, so she signs up for a defense class. But is he really after her, or is a dark secret throwing its effects on her life? It's good, but nothing special. There are only so many suspects here, but the suspense is good. Definitely better than Abbott's novel.



While browsing the bookstore, I then picked up the hidden find that was The Secret Room.

Fair warning: this is actually a threequel. It can be read on its own, but once you read it you won't need or want to read the first two. Anyway, the premise is that a psychiatrist begins working at a prison and then someone or something starts killing her patients. She might lose her job if she doesn't get to the bottom of things. It's a unique story and the added bonuses of wacky patients and a prison setting make it even spookier. I liked this one. But yeah, it has the same "sudden twist" [not the major twist] that many books have when they feature a female lead. Actually, I think at least two other books on this list have the same twist! Maybe authors should find new ways to change someone's life?



I thought I'd take it a step up and moved on to A Simple Favor.

This one didn't grab me. Basically this woman agrees to pick up her friend's kid from school and the friend doesn't return. The reason for the main character's disappearance is revealed halfway through, and there are no consequences for anyone involved. Okay, so presumably I read for the sake of finding out the consequences, but then there are none, so...waste of time. There is also incest for no reason than entertainment. Um, EW. Did I mention the characters were completely unlikable, Bell utilizes a ton of cliches, and that the climax is inspired by/stolen from a popular movie? I rated this three stars; it should have been maybe two.



The last one I read was The Other Woman.
Currently Reading (and quite possibly my next review):

A simple premise: a woman's future mother-in-law wants her gone. She loves her fiance, so she keeps going, but that's hard to do when Pammie is making you look like the bad guy. I could see the red flags in this relationship sticking out like sore thumbs, so while I didn't entirely guess the twist (I think it crossed my mind briefly once or twice) it didn't blow me away either. I also think the characters could have been more interesting.


Not all scary stories are so very terrible. A lot of them actually come with good messages and aren't just "killing for fun." I actually prefer the domestic thriller vein myself. So if you're looking for something different this Halloween, try one of these books.


Do you prefer thrillers or horror stories? Any suggestions?